Even if the breakup itself was fairly drama-free, trying to share friends after the fact can create drama, and most men would rather avoid this altogether. Here are 3 rules to follow to ensure that you don't cross the line by maintaining your mutual friends: Rule 1: Observe the 6-month rule.Relationship expert and dating coach Lauren Frances suggests you stick to a 6-month buffer zone after the breakup where you avoid hanging out with your ex's friends and their significant others.
And there are clearly some people who lack the ability (or desire) to use either responsibly.
One of my all-time favorite Facebook stories involved a recent college graduate backtracking it to the old Alma Mater on a recruiting trip.
he "exes code" is a name I've given to the oft-unspoken (and occasionally, loudly voiced) rule that keeps the peace amongst female friends by keeping each other from pursuing each others' exes.
(Note: the same rule applies to men, too.) And while the dating pool may seem to be getting smaller and smaller these days, there are certain men that you tempting or convenient they may seem.
But do these attachments last if the relationship doesn't? A breakup with a guy generally means a breakup with his friends and family, too.