Japanese men seem to expect certain things from a woman.
As a result it is tough to find a date as a foreign woman here in Japan.
It is by far not impossible and I know quite a few girls who don’t only have a Japanese boyfriend, but are also married to a Japanese man, but it is still the BIG exception!
Please note that the following is based on my personal experience and that not everybody out there is like that.
In relationships where the man is foreign I noticed that they mostly speak his native language.
Another friend told me that while he was on exchange in Japan, he was talking to this really pretty girl a lot and no other guy would do that. I can’t imagine how many “dates” I’ve gone on then, and I made a HUGE faux pas then. You don’t make out with people at a club A Japanese guy friend was saying how if a girl or guy made out with a stranger at a club, he or she would be hated by the Japanese crowd.