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Most new Dominants lack the self confidence to give their submissive orders and command them to act out the Dominant’s desires. When the Dominant gives a command to his submissive and in doing so can hear the fear in his own voice it destroys his self confidence.

Instead, think of the upcoming scene in a more macro, big picture, mindset.

If you find it difficult or awkward speaking to your submissive with authority, practice.

She will concentrate on her task at hand and will be afforded the confidence that when the time arrives when she should be moving onto the next task, her Dominant will command it of her without her needing to realize it on her own.

Men in general have difficulty verbalizing their desires during play.

The submissive genuinely desires to please her Dominant and requires his specific direction in doing so.