Apparently they have trouble getting into the rules of the Swedish dating game.
One of the most common places to find a partner is at a nightclub (or a mutual friend’s party), which may seem pretty obvious.
Either way, the chances are good that you’ll exchange phone numbers, which is crucial for the next step.
Assuming that things went well at the club, sometime in the next few days one of you (it might just as well be the girl as the boy) will text the other and ask them out for a The fact that both of you are aware that you’re on a date while simultaneously pretending that it’s not a date can make things quite awkward, but that’s how it’s done.
Eventually you’ll have another date, usually at the cinema, and if that goes well too, you’ll have what constitutes a relationship.